Hajja Salesjana

Photo by Dominik Lange on Unsplash.com it is to appreciate and recognize that without my parents, I would not be who I am today. By helping my father I now realize how difficult and how hard it is to do something on my own. I have come to appreciate the importance and the value in helping my family.” The director said, “This is what I look for in my people. I want to hire someone who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the hardship of others to do things, and a person who does not put money as his only goal in life. Therefore, you are now hired.” A child that has been coddled, protected and usually given whatever he/she wants, develops a mentality of “I have the right!” and will always put him/herself first, ignoring the efforts of his/her parents. If we are this type of protective parent are we really showing love or are we destroying our children? You can give your child a big house, good food, computer classes, a big screen TV. But when you're washing the floor or painting a wall, please let him experience that too. After eating have them wash the dishes with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you have no money to hire someone to do this, but rather it's because you want to love them the right way. No matter how rich you are, you want them to understand. One day you will have gray hair, like the father of this young man. The most important thing is that your child learns to appreciate the effort to do things right, to experience the difficulties one encounters at work and to learn the ability to work with others so as to get things done well. Photo by Jesse Orrico - Unsplash.com 9 April - Ġunju 2023 hajja